THE COST OF MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS (YUL ED*CHIE AS A CASE STUDY) ===

THE COST OF MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS (YUL ED*CHIE AS A CASE STUDY) ===> make sure you read to the end.

Good day, all.

I just want us to look into the life of Yul Ed*chie and how he moved from an "odogwu" (a great and powerful man) to "odiegwu" (a man of zero honor) within the space of one year.

Before November 2021, the month JD Austin gave birth to a son for Yul from an extramarital affair, Yul was a successful Nollywood celebrity that lots of people looked up to, respected, and wished to be like, for his personality, charisma, unique voice, his beautiful family with May (before that time), hard work, determination in pursuing his political ambitions, dedication to his career, excellence in his movie appearances, family history, etc. He later secretly got married to Judy around April 2022 without the consent of his wife then and officially announced her as his second wife, an act that displeased May and later led to their separation and Yul moving in with Judy.

This is where I'm going 👇

Since Judy moved into his life as a wife and May walked out of his life, a lot has happened and a lot has changed for him. It has been from one drama to another, one social media drama to another, one explanation to another, one calling-out to another, etc. Like, this guy has been a topic of discussion on the e-space for over a year now_not for good reasons though. He has even dragged his family into it, and even his legendary father too, to the extent that his father has been dragged online a couple of times because of his matter. This is a chief that has no business with this internet generation and has led a noble life.

My point is, all these things (daily dramas, losses, making-ups, explanations, daily social media ridicule, etc) could have been avoided if Yul had stayed faithful to his wife and his marriage. It is very simple! 

Cheating destroys a lot of things. Cheating never leaves you the same way. You could lose your credibility, your worth, money (because you spend more when you cheat, and mostly wasted spendings), family, endorsements, etc. You could contract diseases and spread it to your innocent family. It is very costly! It is very stressful too.

Why do you have to pay all these painful prices because of few minutes of pleasure? Is it worth losing your family? Is is worth losing something you have worked hard to build over the years? Think about it...

Dear men, please, stick to your woman. I don't know what you're looking for outside. If you take good care of her, she will glow! She will stay beautiful for you and the family. The one you're running after outside is been taken care of that's why you find her attractive.

And if it's her character that pushes you away, talk to her about it. Have a discussion first. Sometimes people do things without even realizing how it's affecting others until you call their attention to it. If she's not yielding to your request to resolve things, you can go for counseling together. Maybe she will hear that one and decide to do things better. 

My point is, do your best to avoid being in a situation in your home that will make you cheat on your partner. Be open to finding common ground on things with your partner always.

This advice also applies to women too, because I know some do cheat on their husbands too. 

Let me stop here.